OK Super-Angry Guy who has been dominating my dreams er... nightmares recently:

I know you are a composite of at least two people, neither of whom I've knowingly displeased. And yet, when you appear, you scream at me. Your beautiful eyes are cold. At first you just tell me to get away. But I plead for at least some elucidation and insist on my innocence. You start to explain how I've slighted you, but become disgusted and storm away. Sometimes I can convince you to come back, an opportunity to hear my wrongdoing - won't it feel better to get it all out, to just tell me why I'm so horrible? - but as you soften just a bit, I awaken, never to know the truth.

I haven't seen either half of you in real life for decades. But I suppose pieces of you live on in my current demanding clients, both male and female, even if your form in my subconscious mind is male. Last night, a new person appeared - female - completely unrelated physically to anyone I've seen in real life. On average it is the female clients that are hardest to please, so it surprises me that you are my main antagonist.

Let's just work it out, eh?